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ojaxuri harmonia

dr. zeqie demir

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winasityvaoba

adamiani sazogadoebis nawilia. erTian sivrceSi mcxovrebi adamianebi valdebulni arian icodnen individis uflebeba- movaleobebi da pasuxismgeblobis grZnobiT unda moqmedebdnen, raTa adamianTa Soris mSvidoba da bedniereba iqnas uzrunvelyofili. pasuxismgeblobis Segneba pirovnebam, upirveles yovlisa sakuTariT unda daiwyos. piradi pasuxismgeblobis grZnoba visac gaaCnia, man ojaxisa da sazogadoebis winaSe arsebuli pasuxismgeblobac icis da dakisrebul movaleobasac asrulebs.

„nuTu egona adamians, rom upasuxismgeblod iqneboda mitovebuli?“

sura yiameTis 36-e aiaTi migviTiTebs, rom adamiani pasuxismgeblobis matarebeli arsebaa.

„mere im dRes, aucileblad mogekiTxebaT, rac geboZaT!“

sura Teqasuris me-8 aiaTi ki gviCvenebs, rom adamians, upirveles yovlisa goneba da sxva mravali wyaloba eboZa da amis sapasuxod, garkveuli valdebulebebi daekisra, romelic SeZlebidagvarad unda Seasrulos.

sazogadoebis simSvides, umTavresad gaurkvevloba arRvevs, yvelas gvekisreba pasuxismgebloba, raTa adamianis RirsebisTvis Sesaferisi momavali SeviqmnaT. cxadia, rom dRes Cvens sazogadoebaSi mravali gaurkveveli sakiTxi arsebobs.

dReisaTvis msoflio sazogadoebis momavals mravali safrTxe emuqreba. esenia: SimSli, siRaribe, garemos dabinZureba, bunebrivi katastrofebi, socialuri uTanasworoba, araTanabari pirobebi, zneobrivi dacemuloba, sulieri simdable, materialuri midrekilebebi, urwmunoeba, boroteba, arasakmarisad jansaRi garemo, gaurkvevloba ganaTlebisa da samarTlianobis sferoSi, istoriuli da kulturuli Rirebulebebis ganadgureba da sxva. garda amisa, am yvelafers emateba adamianebs Soris dialogis. tolerantobisa da Semwynareblobis Semcireba, gansxvavebuli azris devna da terori.

yvela es sakiTxi ara konkretuli regionis an erisTvisaa damaxasiaTebeli, aramed mTeli msoflios mosaxleoba raRac formiT, gaurkvevlobaSia Cafluli. am sakiTxebis mosagvarevlad ki xalxebs Soris urTierTobis gaRrmaveba da saerTaSoriso mniSvnelobis qmediTi miRwevebis Ziebaa saWiro.

sinamdvileSi, umTavresi aris is, rom Cvens xelT arsebul Rirebulebebs ver vamCnevT da Sesabamisad am RirebulebebiT ar vcxovrobT. gamomdinare aqedan, jer es Rirebulebebi unda aRmovaCinoT da yoveldRiurobaSi davnergoT. ueWvelia, rom CvenTvis yvelaze mniSvnelovani Rirebuleba islamia, romelic ramdenime aTeuli saukunis ganmavlobaSi, kacobriobas gzas unaTebs.

dRes, adamianis SesaZleblobebis ganviTarebis mizniT SemuSavebuli, fsiqoTerapiis meTodebis qmediTunarianobisaTvis, ekologiuri problemebis, narkomaniis winaaRmdeg brZolis da sxva msgavsi gamowvevebis winaaRmdeg religiis mniSvneloba aSkaraa. islams gaaCnia saimiso SesaZlebloba, rom Tanamedrove gamowvevebs upasuxos. mas aqvs saimiso dinamika, raTa Tanamedrove msoflios axali formulirebebi SesTavazos.

am TvalsazrisiT Cveni sarwmunoebis mier gadmocemuli brZanebebi da rCevebi, romlebic urTierTdaxmarebisa da tolerantobis principebis damkvidrebas uwyobs xels, yurad unda viRoT da adamianebs Soris arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebi kargad gaviazroT da cxovrebis Wiri da lxini erTad vzidoT. Cveni cxovrebis stili socialuri urTierTTanadgoma unda iyos da bednieri momavlisTvis yvelam erTad vibrZoloT.

Sesavali

ra aris ojaxi?

ojaxi sazogadoebis Semadgeneli yvelaze didi erTeulia. patara ojaxi, zogadad mSoblebis da maTi Svilebisagan Sedgeba, xolo did ojaxSi mSoblebTan da SvilebTan erTad bebia, babua da sxva axlo naTesavebi cxovroben. ojaxi sazogadoebrivi wyobis patara modelia. mtkice ojaxi mtkice sazogadoebis maCvenebelia. swored ojaxia is adgili, sadac urTierTsiyvaruli da urTierTgatana yvelaze metad igrZnoba. swored aq xdeba tradiciebis da wesebis Seswavla da cxovrebasTan dakavSirebuli sxva mniSvnelovani gzavnilebis aTviseba.

ojaxis dacva, religiuri cxovrebis gangrZobadobisTvis ukiduresad mniSvnelovania. isalmi mouwodebs adamianebs swori cxovrebisken da sTavazobs principebs, romlebic maT rwmenas ayalibebs da qcevebs awesrigebs. radganac swored ojaxia is adgili, sadac rwmena da qcevebi yalibdeba, islami ojaxis instituts did mniSvnelobas aniWebs. ojaxis usafrTxoeba did rols TamaSobs, rogorc individis, ise sazogadoebis simSvidisa da bednierebisaTvis. mednieri individebisgan Semdgari ojaxebi, bednier sazogadoebas qmnian. amitom ojaxuri bedniereba, ojaxis erTianobisa da misi SenarCunebis mTavari pirobaa. ubeduri adamianebi ojaxis simtkices ver SeinarCuneben da Sesabamisad verc jansaRi sazogadoeba Camoyalibdeba.

ojaxis Seqmna

‘axalgazrdebo, visac ojaxis Seqmnis saSualeba gaqvT, daqorwindiT“! (buhari, niqah)

ojaxis Seqmna mSoblebis SeuRlebiT iwyeba. amis Semdeg ki axlad Seqmnil ojaxs bavSvebic Seemateba. ojaxi maSin iqmneba, roca wyvili ojaxis Seqmnis mizniT erTad cxovrebas iwyebs. ojaxis Seqmnis miznis gareSe wyvilebis erTad yofna ojaxs ar niSnavs. ojaxis Seqmna, es ar aris droebiTi gatacebis, an erTad yofnis survilis dakmayofileba. es aris mtkice urTierTobis dawyeba, rodesac wyvili mTeli cxovrebis manZilze, sikvdilamde erTad iziarebs Wirsa da lxins, bednierebasa da ubedurebas da a.S. swored amitom ewodebaT maT meuRleebi. amitom ojaxis Seqmna did gabedulebas moiTxovs da misi SenarCunebac did Zalisxmevas saWiroebs. wm. yuranSi da hadisebSi aris gzavnilebi, romlebic qorwinebisa da ojaxis Seqmnisaken mogviwodebs. islamis mixedviT, qalisa da mamakacis urTierTobis zogadi principi mdgomareobs ara maT cal-calke cxovrebaSi, aramed legitimuri formiT, anu RmerTis mier dawesebuli wesebis mixedviT TanacxovrebaSi.

ojaxi, rogorc zeviT mogaxseneT, sazogadoebis Semadgeneli mniSvnelovani erTeulia da Sesabamisad didi mniSvneloba eniWeba im Tvisebebs, romlebic ojaxis Seqmnis kandidatebs unda axasiaTebdeT. am adamianebma erTmaneTTan bedniereba unda hpovon.

„misi saswaulebidanaa isic, rom Tqvenganve gaaCina Tqveni mewyvile, raTa ipovoT masSi simSvide, dagidginaT erTmaneTSi siyvaruli da mowyaleba. ueWvelad, amaSi saswaulebia moazrovne xalxTaTvis!“ (rum 21)

„nebadarTuli iqmna TqvenTvis marxvis dros RamiT colebTan Tanacxovreba, isini samoselia Tqveni da Tqven xarT samoseli maTi. allahma icoda, rom Tavs iwvalebdiT, amitomac miiRo Tqveni sinanuli da mogitevaT.“ (bayara 187)

aiaTSi meuRleebis samoselTan Sedareba sakmaod yuradsaRebi momentia. samoseli adamians zamTarSi sicivisgan da zafxulSi sicxisgan icavs. qorwinebaSi myofi wyvilebic nebismier dros, Wirsa da lxinSi erTmaneTs mxarSi unda edgnen. tanisamosi sxeuls faravs da icavs mas. garda amisa, tanisamosi adamians alamazebs da ufro moxdenils warmoaCens. meuRleebmac erTimeoris cudi mxareebi da naklovanebebi unda dafaron da amrigad codvisaganac daculni iqnebian.

maS, ra aris is Tvisebebi, romlebic ojaxis Seqmnis kandidatebs unda gaaCndeT, raTa maT es yvelaferi SeZlon da harmoniuli ojaxi Seqmnan?

es Tvisebebi wm. Suamavalma Semdegnairad Camoayaliba:

„qveynad yvelaferi Zvirfasia, xolo yvelaze kargi Rirseuli mandilosania.“

„qali oTxi Tvisebis gamo SeiZleba colad SevirToT: simdidre, gvariSviloba, silamaze da morwmuneoba. Sen morwmune arCie.“

yvela es Tviseba, rac mandilosnebis Sesaxeb iqna CamoTvlili, SegviZlia mamakacebsac movargoT. qalisTvis yvelaze sasargeblo arseba kargi meuRlea. qalebic kacis oTxi Tvsebis gamo SeiZleba daqorwindnen. esenia: garegnuli moxdeniloba, simdidre, gvariSviloba da morwmuneoba. qalebmac TavianTi arCevani morwmunisa da znekeTilis sasargeblod unda gaakeTon.

arCevanisas, ratom unda mivaniWoT upiratesoba morwmune da RvTismoSiS adamians, es Tema kide unda ganvavrcoT. garegnuli moxdeniloba da silamaze erTmaneTis tolis da sworis monaxvis TvalsazrisiT erTob mniSvnelovania. es Tvisebebi, umeteswilad adamians memkvidreobiT axasiaTebs da maTi mopoveba mis nebasa da mcdelobaze ar aris damokidebuli. anu, gvariSiloba da silamaze adamians dabadebidan dahyveba da es Tvisebebi misi damsaxureba ar gaxlavT. simdidris umetesi nawilic isev simdidrisgan momdinareobs. am TvisebebiT ver gavigebT, Tu ras moimoqmedebs momavali meuRle da rogor moiqceva is konkretul situaciaSi. morwmuneoba, keTili zne da kargi aRzrda adamianis Semdgomi SenaZenia. Sesabamisad morwmune, znekeTili da kargad aRzrdili adamianisgan mosalodneli saqcielis gamocnoba SesaZlebelia. im adamianisgan, romelic codvisa daboroti qmedebisgan Sors dgas, ojaxis sawinaaRmdego raimis Cadena warmoudgenelia. morwmune adamiani, romelsac znekeTiloba gamoarCevs didad sandoa da Sesabamisad daqorwinebisas es misTvis didi privilegiaa.

Tumca isic unda aRiniSnos, rom aq CamoTvlili Tvisebebi (simdidre, simpaTiuroba, znekeTiloba, gvariSviloba da morwmuneoba) erTimeores ar gamoricxavs. adamiani SeiZleba iyos mdidaric, znekeTilic, morwmunec da kai gvariSvilic. aseT SemTxvevaSi gadawyvetilebis miReba gacilebiT iolia. wm. Suamavlis rCevebi gansakuTrebul mniSvnelobas iZens, roca es Tvisebebi adamianSi erTad ar aris Tavmoyrili. morwmune adamiani iseT adamianiT ar unda moixiblos, romelic mdidari da simpaTiuria, magram ar aris morwmune. simdidre warmavalia, iseve rogorc silamaze, xolo morwmuneoba da maRali zneoba rCeba da is adamians mudmivad warmoaCens.

am yvelafridan gamomdinare, saqorwino vaJi an qali kargad unda dafiqrdes, sanam am nabijs gadadgams, raTa imedi ar gaucruvdes da realurad ojaxuri harmonia hpovos. qorwineba sasuvelia erTimeoris Sesaferis wyvils Soris moxdes. Seuferebel wyvils Soris problemebis gaCenis albaToba maRalia, rac SemdgomSi ojaxis dangrevis winapiroba SeiZleba gaxdes.

ojaxis mniSvneloba

„ojaxi is cixesimagrea, sadac boroteba ver daimkvidrebs“ endriu vilsoni

meuRlis SerCevisas gamoCenili windaxeduleba aramarto daqorwinebuli wyvilis bednierebisTvisaa saWiro, aramed is mniSvnelovania ojaxuri simtkicis SenarCunebisTvisac. mtkice ojaxi, mtkice sazogadoebas qmnis.

ojaxis erT-erTi mniSvnelovani funqcia STamomavlobis gagrZelebis uzrunvelyofaa. iseT sazogadoebaSi, sadac ojaxebi simtkiciT ar gamoirCevian, jansaRi individebis warmoSoba ukiduresad Zneldeba. dasavlur xalxebSi mosaxleobis swrafi daberebis tendenciebi SeiniSneba. qorwinebamdeli ukanono kavSirebis mimdevar axalgazrdebs Svilis gaCena da maTi martod aRzrdis wasuxismgeblobis tvirTva ar surT. amis gamoa, rom axali Taobebis kleba xdeba da mosaxleoba „berdeba“. am problemis mogvarebis mizniT, xsenebuli problemis mqone qveynebSi, mTavrobebi specialur kanonebs gamoscemen, raTa qorwineba da Svilebis gaCena waaxalison.

Tanamedroveobis erT-erTi seriozuli problema martoobaa. garda amisa, adamians SeiZleba hqondes fsiqikuri (sulieri) an biologiuri (fizikuri) problemebi. yovel adamians surs Tavisi sixaruli, bedniereba da ubedureba sxvas gauziaros. ojaxuri garemo swored is adgilia, sadac adamianebi TavianT sixarulsa Tu wuxils erTimeores uziareben da am saWioebas ikmayofileben. es ki maT simartovisgan icavs. amrigad, ojaxis wevrebi sulierad da fizikurad erTmaneTs exmarebian da aseTi erTianobiT cxovroben.

iseT sazogadoebaSi, sadac ojaxis institutis roli Sesustebulia mruSoba da sxva msgavsi uzneoba vrceldeba, es ki adamianebs Soris mravali saxis fizikur, sulier da socialur ubedurebebs iwvevs. swored ojaxia is instituti, romelic sazogadoebaSi warmoqmnil zneobriv Cavardnebs win aRudgeba.

bevri funqcia, romelic warsulSi ojaxs gaaCnda (ganaTleba, socialuri usafrTxoeba da sxv.) drois gasvlasTan erTad sxva sazogadoebriv institutebze iqna gadabarebuli. aqedan gamomdinare bevrma ifiqra, rom ojaxis yvela funqciis sxva institutebze gadabareba iyo SesaZlebeli da zogierTma es scada kidec. Tumca, am mcdelobas raime dadebiTi Sedegi ar mohyolia. amis kvalobaze xSiria SemTxvevebi, roca adamianebi qorwinebis gareSe agrZeleben cxovrebas, xolo sibereSi pensiiT da sxva socialuri programebis saSualebiT axerxeben Tavis gatanas. Tumca, es yvelaferi ojaxis adgils verasodes daikavebs.

mokled rom vTqvaT, ojaxis ekonomiuri, fsiqologiuri, socialuri, kulturuli da biologiuri funqciebis sxva institutebze gadabareba SesaZlebeli ar Cans.

dRes, ojaxi aris is cixesimagre, romelic kacobriobas icavs sami ZiriTadi safrTxisagan. esenia: danaSauli, terori da daavadebebi (mag. Sidsi da sxv). garda amisa, ojaxi mniSvnelovani faqtoria stresis daZlevis da sxva mravali ubedurebis Tavidan acilebis sakiTxSi.

muslimi individebis kuTxiT ojaxi, Tavisi bednieri garemoTi, dedamiwas samoTxed gadaaqcevs xolme. es aris adgili, romelic adamianebis mier gamoxatuli Tanadgomis Sedegad samoTxes emsgavseba.

ojaxi, sazogadoeba da msoflio

mtkice saojaxo instituti aramarto TviT ojaxis wevrebisTvis aris mniSvnelovani, aramed mTeli sazogadoebis, qveynisa da zogadad msoflio wesrigisTvisac mniSvnelovania. swored ojaxia is centri, sadac axali Taobebi warmoiSoba. kargi Taoba mxolod karg ojaxSi SeiZleba aRizardos. ase rom Taobebis aRzrdis saqmeSi ojaxis roli Zalian didia.

sazogadoebisTvis mniSvnelovania ara nebismieri individis arseboba, aramed iseTi individis aRzrda, romelic sazogadoebis sicocxlisunarianobas SeinarCunebs, misi wesebis dacviT icxovrebs, saerTo miznebis Sesabamisad ibrZolebs da zogadad sazogadoebisTvis sasargeblo wevri iqneba. amitom, mniSvnelovania ara mxolod ojaxis, aramed kargi ojaxis arseboba. warmovidginoT ori sxvadasxva ojaxi, romelTagan TiToeuls TiTo Cvili bavSvi yavs. sazogadoeba am orive ojaxisgan elodeba iseTi Svilebis aRzrdas, romlebic iqnebodnen mosiyvarule, samarTliani adamianebi, eyvarebodaT xalxi da garemo, iqnebodnen pasuxismgeblobis matarebelni da sandoni. am ori ojaxidan erTi Zalian didi mondomebiT zrdis bavSvs. yvelafers akeTebs saimisod, rom bavSvi wesieri da Rirseuli pirovneba aRizardos. meore ojaxi ki bavSvis aRzrdas maincdamainc yuradRebas ar aqcevs da ase vTqvaT, alalbedze zrdis. gana SeiZleba es ori bavSvi erTnairi aRizardos? racarunda mosalodneli iyos gamonaklisi, pirveli ojaxis mier aRzrdili bavSvis SemTxvevaSi dadebiTi Sedegi ufro metadaa mosalodneli, vidre meore ojaxis mier aRzrdili bavSvis SemTxvevaSi.

Tu erT ojaxSi aRzrdili bavSvi SeiZens saTanado unar-Cvevebs da ganaTlebas, raTa SemdegSi iyos sasargeblo rogorc sakuTari ojaxis ise sazogadoebisTvis, xolo meore bavSvi aRizrdeba ise, rom mudmivad sxvisi daxmarebis Semyure iqneba da saerTod sazogadoebas tvirTad daawveba, es orive pirovneba bunebrivia garkveuli gagebiT Tabaswori ver iqnebian. bavSvis aRzrda mxolod mis biologiur zrdas ar gulisxmobs da saWiroa misi sazogadoebisTvis sasargeblo pirovnebad Camoyalibeba. amitom, ojaxis umTavresi movaleoba bavSvis kargi aRzrdaa.

bavSvi mSoblebze mibarebuli amanaTia da maT, sulierad da fizikurad jansaRi Svilis aRzrda mxolod bednieri ojaxis pirobebSi SeuZliaT. jansaRi, sazogadoebis saerTo Rirebulebebis mimarT pativiscemis matarebeli, morwmune, garemos mimarT yuradRebiani da Rirseuli Taobebis aRzrda mxolod bednier WerqveS, mSoblebis siyvarulisa da yuradRebis meoxebiTaa SesaZlebeli.

dangreuli ojaxis Svilebi, bunebrivia yuradRebas da siyvaruls moklebulni arian. bavSvi, romelic sando garemoSi ar aris gazrdili, ndobas iolad ver Seqmnis. siyvarulsa da yuradRebas moklebuli mozardi, siyvaruliT savse samyaros iolad ver Camoayalibebs. danaSaulis kvlevebma aCvena, rom damnaSaveTa umetesoba swored rom upatrono bavSvebi, an dangreuli ojaxis Svilebi arian. aseT bavSvebs ojaxuri siTbo da mzrunveloba akliaT, amitom maTi danaSaulebriv garemoSi moxvedra gacilebiT martivia. garda amisa, kvlevebma cxadyo, rom ojaxSi gazrdil bavSvebTan SedarebiT, ojaxs gareT, an quCaSi gazrdil bavSvebs fsiqologiuri, socialuri da zneobrivi TvalsazrisiT meti problemebi aqvT.

tbaSi Cagdebuli qvis Sedegad wylis zedapirze warmoSobili da gavrcelebuli rgolebis msgavsad bednieri ojaxi karg pirovnebebs aRzrdis, kargi pirovnebebi karg sazogadoebas Seqmnian, kargi sazogadoeba ki karg qveyanas qmnis. kargi qveynebisgan ki kargi msoflio yalibdeba. aq, wyalSi Cagdebuli qva, anu ojaxi, raodenac Zlieri iqneba, imdenad Zlierad gavrceldeba rgolebi.

mokled rom vTqvaT, ojaxi did rols TamaSobs, rogorc Taobebis biologiur da zneobriv aRzrdaSi, ise qveynisa da msoflios mSvidobis uzrunvelyofis saqmeSi.

ojaxis usafrTxoeba

yoveli individisa da sazogadoebis simSvidisa da bednierebisaTvis didi mniSneloba aqvs ojaxis dacvas da usafrTxoebas. qorwinebis waxaliseba da ganqorwinebis Tavidan aSoreba, ojaxis dacvis procesSi mniSvnelovani faqtorebia. saamisod ki yvelam sakuTari movaleoba unda Seasrulos.

ojaxis Seqmnas da mis usafrTxoebas yvelaze did safrTxes mruSoba uqmnis. islamis mixedviT mruSoba kategoriulad akrZalulia. mruSoba rogorc zneobrivad, ise samarTlebrivadac miuRebelia. mruSoba gansakuTrebiT iseT pirobebSi vrceldeba, sadac moraluri normebi Sesustebulia. Sesabamisad, zneobrivi normebis dacva ojaxis usafrTxoebisTvis Zalzed mniSvnelovania.

iseT garemoSi, sadac prostitucia da mruSobaa gavrcelebuli, ojaxuri siwmindis SenarCuneba ukiduresad Zneldeba. aseT SemTxvevaSi axalgazrdebis waxalisebaa saWiro, raTa droilad daqorwindnen da mruSobis WaobSi ar Caeflon. daqorwinebis msurvel axalgazrdebs unda davexmaroT da ar unda davuSvaT, rom axalgazrdebma siRaribis gamo daqorwinebisgan Tavis Seikavon. ojaxis usafrTxoebisaTvisa da mruSobis safrTxis Tavidan asacileblad mravalmxrivi prevenciuli zomebi unda iqnas gatarebuli.

erT-erTi ZiriTadi faqtori, romelic mruSobis gavrcelebas iwvevs, siRaribea. gansakuTrebiT es exeba qalbatonebs, radgan siRaribea swored is faqtori, romlebic maT mruSobisken ubiZgebs.

mruSoba mxolod uzneo saqcieli ar aris. is aris sfero, sadac didi fuli trialebs. am sferoSi momuSave, anu msxverpli adamianebis umetesoba Raribebi arian. Sesabamisad, siRaribis daZleva da keTildReobis mateba aramarto Seamcirebs ojaxebis ngrevas, aramed gasaqans SeuzRudavs mruSobis gavrcelebasac. gansakuTrebuli yuradReba unda mieqces gogonebis ganaTlebasa da damoukidebeli cxovrebisaTvis aucilebeli unar-Cvevebis SeZenas, raTa maT SeZlon sakuTari Tavis rCena da sxvaze ar gaxdnen damokidebuli. xSir SemTxvevaSi swored imis bralia gogonebis prostituciaSi Cabma, rom maT ar SeuZliaT Tavi irCinon. Tu prostitucia gamowveulia ara siRaribis, aramed sxva mizezebiT, aseT SemTxvevaSi ZiriTadi roli zneobrivma faqttorma unda iTamaSos, raTa qalebi am WaobSi ar aRmoCndnen.

ojaxis usafrTxoebis winaaRmdeg mimarTuli kidev erTi faqtori ojaxuri Zaladobaa. iq, sadac konfliqti sityviT da dialogis gziT ar gvardeba, saqmeSi Zaladoba Semodis. Zaladoba problemis mogvareba ki ar aris. is erTi mxaris meoreze ganxorcielebuli zewola da Cagvraa. sxva sityvebiT rom vTqvaT, Zaladoba Zalis usamarTlod gamoyenebaa. Zlieris mxridan sustis mimarT gamoyenebuli Zaladobis mravali forma arsebobs. Zaladobis nebismieri forma destruqciulia. yvelaze metad destruqciuli bunebis ki ojaxuri Zaladobaa, radgan amiT mxolod Zaladobis adresati ki ar zaraldeba, aramed mTeli sazogadoeba ubedurebis safrTxis winaSe dgeba. adamians yvelaze sando da saimedo adgilad ojaxi miaCniaT da rodesac ojaxSi Zaladobas eqneba adgili, es imedebis gacruebas da yovelmxriv daTrgunvas iwvevs. adamiani kargad ndobas yvelas mimarT, ris Sedegadac ojaxSi warmoSobili Zaladoba sazogadoebaSi negatiur Sedegebs badebs. garda amisa, ojaxuri Zaladobis mowme an msxverpli mozardebisgan bednieri ojaxis Seqmnis albaToba gacilebiT naklebia.

Tu ojaxSi erTi meuRle meoreze sistematiurad Zaladobs da es ojaxi ar ingreva, amis ori mizezi SeiZleba arsebobdes. pirveli: Zaladobis msxverpli mxare iZulebulia darCes ojaxSi, radgan mas damoukideblad Tavis gatana ar SeuZlia. es aris misTvis gamouvali mdgomareoba. amgvari mdgomareoba kacobriobis winaSe Cadenil danaSaulad unda iqnas ganxiluli. meore: Zaladobis msxverpli fiqrobs, rom ojaxis dangreviT bavSvebs zians miayenebs da es maT momavalze uaryofiTad aisaxeba, amitom is itans am Zaladobas da ojaxs inarCunebs. ganxilul orive SemTxvevaSi ojaxis erTad Semakavebeli ara siyvaruli, aramed sxva ramaa. garda zemoT CamoTvlilisa Zaladobis SemTxvevaSi ojaxis SenarCunebis mizezi SeiZleba iyos siyvarulic. magaliTad Zaladobis msxverpl meuRles SeiZleba uyvardes moZalade meore naxevari da amis gamo itandes, magram es siyvaruli calmxrivi iqneba da rodemde gastans aravin icis.

rodesac ojaxSi meuRleebs Soris siyvaruli aRar iqneba, es ukve ganqorwinebis dasawyisia. usiyvaruloba da Zaladoba ojaxis ZiriTadi mtrebia.

ojaxuri movaleobebi

“Tqvens Soris yvelaze sasargeblo isaa, vinc ojaxisTvisaa sasargeblo“.

ojaxs, zogadad deda, mama da bavSvebi warmoadgenen. ojaxis yvela wevris simSvidisa da bednierebisaTvis ki saWiroa ojaxis yvela wevrma sakuTari movaleoba icodes da am movaleobas kargad asrulebdes.

ojaxSi arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebis Sesaxeb saubaria rogorc yuranSi, ise Suamavlis hadisebSic.

„gacilebuli qalebi Tavs ikaveben (xelmeored dasaqorwineblad) sam qalTa wess. Tu swamT allahi da dRe ukanaskneli, neba ar aqvT damalon, rac allahma gauCina maT saSvilosnoebSi. xolo maTi qmrebi ufro Rirseuli arian am dros daibrunon isini, Tuki surT Serigeba. da qalebs aqvT igive uflebebi, ra uflebebic maTze (qmrebs) aqvT kanonis farglebSi. oRond qmrebi maTze maRla arian erTi safexuriT. ueWvelad, allahi Zlevamosilia, brZenia.“ (bayara 228)

“mamakacebo, rogorc Tqvens gaqvT qalTa mimarT uflebebi, ise maTac aqvT Tqvens mimarT uflebebi.“ (Tirmizi, Tefsir, 10)

ojaxSi arsebuli ufleba movaleobebi Semdeg oTx jgufad iyofa: meuRleebs Soris arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebi, mSoblebis Svilebis winaSe arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebi, Svilebis mSoblebis winaSe arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebi da Svilebis erTimeoris winaSe arsebuli ufleba-movaleobebi.

meuRleebis ufleba-movaleobebi erTmaneTis mimarT

ojaxSi mamakacis upirvelesi movaleoba ojaxis wevrebis patiosani sarCoTi gamokvebaa. dasaqorwinebeli mamakaci unda akmayofilebdes pirobas, romelic misi da misi meuRlis rCenis SesaZleblobas gulisxmobs. mamakacs, romelsac ojaxis rCenis SesaZlebloba ar gaaCnia, mis mier ojaxis Seqmna SesaZlo problemebs moitans. wm. Suamavali brZanebda, rom ojaxis rCenisTvis daxarjuli fuli sikeTeSi daxarjuli madliani fuliao. fulis daxarjvisas miuRebelia rogorc zedmeti siZunwe ise uyairaTod xarjva. garda amisa, mamakaci qals uxeSad ar unda moeqces da arcerTo formiT ar unda dauSvas Zaladoba.

qali ojaxis ZiriTadi Semoqmedia. qali valdebulia mTeli Tavisi unari da codna ojaxs moaxmaros, ojaxis erTianobisa da warmatebisTvis izrunos da ojaxis legitimuri moTxovnilebebis dakmayofilebas miaqcios yuradReba.

„qali, romelic xuTi drois namazs aRasrulebs, daicavs marxvas, daicavs Rirsebas da qmars pativs scems, samoTxeSi misTvis sasurveli karebidan Seva“. (ahmed ibn hanbeli. musned 1)

ojaxuri Tanacxovrebis warmarTva urTierTgagebiTa da SemwynareblobiTaa SesaZlebeli. aqedan gamomdinare, ojaxSi movaleobebis mkacri gansazRvra mTlad swori ar iqneba. magaliTad, Tu qmars iseT mdgomareoba Seeqmna, rom ojaxis rCena ar SeuZlia, maSin colis mxridan muSoba da ojaxis rCenis saqmeSi wvlilis Setana gamouvali mdgomareobaa.

ojaxSi saqmis gadanawileba da imis gansazRvra Tu ra gaakeTos qmarma da ra-colma, religiurze metad kulturuli pasuxismgeblobaa. es imitom, rom sxvadasxva geografiul garemoSi, klimatisa da pirobebis mixedviT qalebsa da kacebs Soris saqmis gadanawileba sxvadasxvagvaria da es umeteswilad damokidebulia klimatze, warmoebis pirobebsa da kulturul Rirebulebebze. Sroma, SesaZleblobebis mixedviT yvelas movaleobaa. am movaleobis Sesrulebisas ZiriTadi ganmsazRvreli sqesi ar gaxlavT.

ojaxSi qalsa da kacs Soris saqmis gadanawileba, umeteswilad istoriuli da kulturuli faqtorebis gaTvalsiwinebiT xdeba. axaldabadebuli bavSvi rogorc wesi dedis rZiT izrdeba, ramac safuZveli daudo im azris Camoyalibebas, rom saojaxo saqmeebi „saqalo“ saqmed dawesda, xolo sagareo saqmianobas mamakaci warmarTavs. amgvari gansazRvreba socialuri da ekonomiuri ganviTarebis kvaldakval icvleba.

meuRleebs Soris erT-erTi mniSvnelovani pasuxismgebloba da movaleoba urTierTsiyvarulisa da pativiscemis Cveneba da erTimeoris naklovanebebis dafarvaa.

mSoblebis movaleobebi da pasuxismgebloba Svilebis winaSe

bavSvis dabadebis Semdeg mSoblebis pirveli movaleoba misTvis Sesaferisi da lamazi saxelis darqmevaa. amis Semdeg, SesaZleblobis farglebSi bavSvis kargi kveba, Cacma-daxurva, aRzrda, samarTlianad moqceva, kargi ganaTlebis micema, profesiis SeZenaSi daxmareba, daqorwineba da sxva msgavsi movaleobebi modis.

am CamonaTvalTagan erT-erTi yvelaze mniSvnelovani bavSvis kargi aRzrdaa. wm. Suamavali brZanebda: „vercerTi mama Tavis Svils karg aRzrdaze ukeTess verafers miscems.“ (Tirmizi, „birr“ 33) kargi aRzrisaTvis ki kargi magaliTia saWiro. bavSvis aRzrdis procesSi mxolod datuqsva ar aris efeqturi. mSobeli misTvis kargi magaliTi unda iyos. bavSvebs rCeva-darigebebze metad kargi magaliTebi sWirdebaT. amitom mSoblebi sxvebTan moqcevisas sikeTiT da SemwynareblobiT unda gamoirCeodnen da roca amas bavSvi naxavs karg magaliTs aiRebs. magaliTad, Tu mSbeli Svils uxsnis, rom Woraoba cudia da ar gaakeToo da amavdroulad TviTon Woraobs, misi gafrTxileba Sedegs ver gamoiRebs. piriqiT, SeiZleba cudi saqcielis provocirebas Seuwyos xeli. amgvari qcevis Sedegad bavSvi orpirobasa da farisevlobas iswavlis.

garda amisa, radgan bavSvi mSoblebs, rogorc magaliTebs ise uyurebs, dedobas da mamobas upirveles yovlisa swored maTgan swavlobs.

abdulaah ibn amris monayolis mixedviT, erTxel wm. Suamavali, roca abdullahi patara iyo, maT ojaxSi yofila stumrad. Turme patara abdullahs dedam dauZaxa da uTxra, modi aq raRac unda mogceo. wm. Suamavals ukiTxavs, ra unda misceo. xurma unda mivceo, miugo Turme abdullahis dedam. bavSvi rom moatyuo da Sepirebuli ar mosce es tyuili iqneba da codva dagedebao, ubrZanebia Suamavals.

es SemTxveva mSoblebisTvis kargi magaliTia. mSblebma Silebs iseTi ram ar unda Sepirdnen, rasac ver Seusruleben. erTis mxriv es iqneba tyuili da Sesabamisad codva, xolo meores mxriv bavSvisTvis cudi magaliTi iqneba da bavSvi tyuils mieCveva.

bavSvi ojaxSi RmerTis mier boZebuli amanaTia. mSobelma ise ar unda ifiqros, rom TiTqos bavSvi misi qoneba iyos da arc Sesabamisad ar unda moeqces. bavSvis kargi aRzrda mSoblis pirovnul arCevanze ar unda iyos damokidebuli. Tu mSobeli bavSvze cud zegavlenas axdens, mosalodnelia bavSvis zneobrivi da fsiqologiuri gaukuRmarTeba da Sesabamisad sazogadoebisTvis usargeblo da safrTxis Semcvel pirovnebad Camoyalibeba, ibadeba legitimuri aucilebloba imisa, rom aseT SemTxvevaSi bavSvi mSobels CamoSordes da sxva, ukeTes garemoSi aRizardos. amitom, amanaTis dacva da gafrTxileba Zalian mniSnelovania. bavSvebi ojaxSi mSvid da dacul garemoSi unda izrdebodnen. es garemo ki mSoblebma unda Seqmnan.

SvilebisTvis bednieri ojaxuri garemos Seqmna mSoblebis yvelaze ZiriTadi movaleobaa. bednieri ojaxuri garemo bavSvis pirovnuli ganviTarebisa da kargi aRzrdisaTvis Zalian mniSvnelovania. urTierTsiyvaruliTa da urTierTpativiscemiT savse ojaxur garemoSi bavSvi Tavs mSvidad da bednierad grZnobs. aseT garemoSi bavSvis gulic siyvaruliTa da gulmowyalebiT ivseba.

mSoblebi bavSvebis mimarT movaleobebis Rirseulad moxdis SemTxvevaSi, erTis mxriv valdebulebas asruleben, xolo meores mxriv sakuTari TavisTvisac sikeTes akeTeben. am movaleobis Rirseulad SesrulebisTvis, yvelaferi sikeTed daubrundebaT, rogorc amqveynad, ise saiqioSi.

bavSvebis pasuxismgebloba mSoblebis mimarT

wm. yuranSi, sura luymanis me-14 aiaTSi nabrZanebia: „da vuanderZeT adamians misi mSoblebi. atara dedam Tavisma, gaWirveba-gaWirvebiT da misi ZuZudan mowyveta or wlamde grZeldeba. me Semwire madloba da Sens mSoblebs, rameTu CemTanaa mosaqcieli!“

bavSvebis movaleoba mSoblebis mimarT, upirveles yovlisa maTdami kargad mopyrobiT ganisazRvreba. wm. Suamavali brZanebda: „yvelaze sasargeblo saqme Tavis droze Sesrulebuli namazi, xolo amis Semdeg mSoblebisadmi kargi mopyrobaa.“

Svilebis movaleobaa daemorCilon mSoblebis nebas, Tu es RmerTis nebasTan winaaRmdegobaSi ar modis. am mxriv yuranSi mocemuli gzavnilebi sakmaod naTeli da gasagebia:

1. „da dagidgina Senma RmerTma, rom ar eTayvanoT aravis, garda misi da keTilad moeqceT mSoblebs. Tu mSobelTagan erT-erTi an orive miaRwevs siberemde, ar uTxra: „uh!“ da ar gauwyre maT da lamazi sityva uTxari!

2. da isini mfarvelobis qveS aiyvane lmobierebiTa da TavmdablobiT da Tqvi: RmerTo Cemo! pataraobisas rogorc gamzardes, ise Seiwyale eseni!

3. Tqvenma RmerTma yvelaze ukeT icis, ra giziT Tqven sulSi. Tuki iqnebiT keTilismqmnelni , maSin, ueWvelad, Semndobia igi momnanieTa! (isra 23-24-25)

bavSvebis movaleobebi erTmaneTis mimarT

bavSvebs, garda mSoblebisa, erTimeoris mimarTac garkveuli valdebulebebi gaaCniaT. da-Zmebi erTmaneTTan urTierTobisas harmoniul damokidebulebaSi unda iyvnen. ufrosma umcross yuradRebiT da mzrunvelobiT unda moekidos, xolo umcrosi valdebulia ufross pativi sces da daujeros. bavSvebis interesebi, unarebi da sxva Tvisebebi gansxvavebuli SeiZleba iyos. amitom maT Soris ar unda Seiqmnas iseTi mdgomareoba da pirobebi, rom erTmaneTis SeSurdeT.

ojaxSi urTierTobisas, movaleobebisa da pasuxismgeblobis gadanawilebisas gakeTebuli yvela amagis samagiero jildo mxolod RmerTsgan unda movilodinoT.

bednieri ojaxis CamoyalibebisaTvis ra unda gakeTdes da ra ar unda gakeTdes?

moTminebis gamoCena da Semwynarebloba aucilebelia.

erT-erTi gadmocemis Tanaxmad ebu muslims kiTxes, Tu rogor unda mivaRwioT ojaxur bednierebas? ebu muslimis pasuxi ki Semdegia: „ojaxSi, roca qmari gabrazdeba colma unda iyuCos da ar Seepasuxos. roca colia gabrazebuli qmari unda gaCumdes da Cumad daelodos. adamiani gabrazebisas giJs emsgavseba. gagiJebul adamianze Sepasuxeba ar SeiZleba. wynarad unda davelodoT mis damSvidebas. ojaxuri bedniereba ase miiRweva. winaaRmdeg SemTxvevaSi gamouval mdgomareobas miviRebT.“

gabrazebisas naTqvami sityva Zalian gulsatkeni SeiZleba iyos. am dros adamiani iseT rames ityvis xolme, rasac SemdgomSi inanebs. meuRleebma amgvar situaciaSi didi yuradReba da urTierTgageba unda gamoiCinon. aseTi moqceva mosalodnel garTulebebs Tavidan agvaridebs.

xSiria SemTxveva, roca ori Zmis gemovneba, Sexedulebebi da azrebi erTmaneTs ar emTxveva. qorwinebisas ki ori sxvadasxva sqesis da savaraudod gansxvavebuli gemovnebis adamiani iwyebs erTad cxovrebas. wyvilebi qorwinebamde racarunda gacnibil-SeCveulni iyon erTmaneTTan, qorwinebis Semdeg ufro siRmiseulad gaicnoben erTmaneTs. erTimeoris ase siRrmiseulad gacnobis Semdeg SesaZloa iseTi damokidebulebebi da mimarTlebebi warmoiqmnas, rac wyvilis urTerTobas da erTad yofnas safrTxis qveS daayenebs, magram aseT SemTxvevaSi wyvili ar unda aCqardes da naadrevi gadawyvetilebebi ar miiRos. aseT dros saWiroa moTmineba gamoiCinon da SeZlebisdagvarad gagebiT moekidon. wm. Suamavali brZanebda: „morwmune qmari morwmune colis iseTi xasiaTs gamovlinebaze, romelic mas ar moswons ar unda gabrazdes, radgan Tu meuRlis erTi Tviseba ar moswons, sxva Tviseba moewoneba“.

aRniSnul sakiTxTan dakavSirebiT yuranS nabrZanebia Semdegi:

„hei Tqven, romelTac irwmuneT! nebadarTuli ara gaqvT, ZaliT aiRoT memkvidreobaSi qalebi . an SeaviwrooT imisaTvis, rom waarTvaT, rac migiciaT maTTvis, garda Tu ar CaudeniaT maT aSkara mruSoba. moepyariT maT Rirseulad. Tu Tqven isini gZulT, iqneb gZuldeT rame, allahs ki didi sikeTe Caedos masSi!“ (nisa 4/19)

es exeba rogorc kacebs ise qalebsac. moTminebis SemTxvevaSi meuRlis is Tviseba droTa ganmavlobaSi Seicvleba da SesaZloa iseTnairad Camoyalibdes, romelic mogvewoneba. gamomdinare aqedan, qorwinebis dros moTmineba aucilebeli pirobaa.

bednieri ojaxis SenarCunebisaTvis qmarmac da colmac unda icodnen, rom erTimeores kargad moepyron da amasTanave erTimeoris wyenisgan maqsimalurad Tavi Seikavon. garda amisa, wyvilebs erTimeoris naklovani mxareebis garda sxva problemebic SeiZleba SexvdeT, iseTi, rogoricaa gaWirveba, avadmyofoba da sxva siZneleebi da es yvelaferi maT erTad unda gadalaxon. es meuRleobis, Tanacxovrebis Sedegad warmoSobili aucileblobaa.

naklovanebebi aRmoCena ki ara dafarvaa mniSvnelovani

yvela lamazs aqvs Tavisi nakli

wm. yuranSi meuRleebis Sesaxeb nabrZanebia:

„nebadarTuli iqmna TqvenTvis marxvis dros RamiT colebTan Tanacxovreba, isini samoselia Tqveni da Tqven xarT samoseli maTi. allahma icoda, rom Tavs iwvalebdiT, amitomac miiRo Tqveni sinanuli da mogitevaT. axla SegiZliaT TanaecxovroT maT da eZioT, rac allahma dagiwesaT. (bayara 2/187)

rogorc zeviT iyo aRniSnuli tanisamosi mxolod ki ar icavs sxeuls, aramed faravs kidec. gamomdiare aqedan meuRleebi erTimeores unda ifaravdnen. es mfarveloba unda grZeldebodes rogorc ojaxis SigniT, ise gareTac. adamiani unaklod ar arsebobs. qalic da kacic erTimeoris naklovanebebis Zebnas ar unda cdilobdnen da ramdenadac SeeZlebaT erTimeoris naklis dafarva da gageba unda scadon. adamians SeiZleba sxvadasxva saxis naklovanebebi hqondes, romlebic sxvadasxva mizezbis gamo warmoiqmneba. magaliTad genetikuri, kulturuli sxvadasxvaobis Sedegad warmoqmnili da sxva. amaTgan zogis gamosworeba saubriT da swavlebiT SeiZleba. gamousworebeli nakli Tu did problemebs ar qmnis is unda davfaroT da moTminebiT mivudgeT.

meuRleebma erTimeoris naklovanebebi ki ar unda eZebon, dadebiTi mxareebi unda moZebnon, aRmoaCinon da meuRles maT ganviTarebaSi daexmaron. meuRleebma SeiZleba ikamaTon, magram maTi kamaTi konstruqciuli unda iyos da ara destruqciuli.

zogjer nakli SeiZleba modiodes ara meuRlis, aramed misi ojaxis an axloblebisgan. aseT SemTxvevebSi sasurvelia problemis umtkivneulod mogvareba, magram Tu ar gvardeba, problema ojaxis SigniT ar unda gavrceldes. am dros dauSvebelia meuRleebma erTimeores daayvedron da erTimeores Sori uTanxmoeba gamoiwvion.

pasuxismgeblobis matarebeli, gamgebiani da Semwynarebeli adamianebi ise ar moiqcevian, rom meuRlis nakli eZebon da dadebiTi mxareebi ar dainaxon. aseTi adamianebis mier Seqmnili ojaxi didi albaTobiT bednieri iqneba.

urTierTobaSi egoisturad ar unda moviqceT

warmovidginoT danadgari, romelic kbilanuri gadacemis brunvis Sedegad muSaobs. amgvari danadgaris muSaobisTvis aucilebelia kbilanebi erTmaneTTan Sexamebuli iyos. romleime kbili, Tavis Casajdom budeze didi rom aRmoCndes, danadgaris muSaoba Seferxdeba da SeiZleba gafuWdes kidec. brunvis uzrunvelsayofad an kbili unda davapataravoT an kide bude gavadidoT.

aRniSnul danadgarze ojaxis da kerZod qorwinaSi myofi wyvilis urTierTobis Sedareba sakmaod mosaxerxebelia. qorwinebaSi myofi wyvilebis xasiaTi da Tvisebebi erTmaneTTan SedarebiT met-naklebad gansxvavebuli SeiZleba iyos da aseT SemTxvevaSi, ojaxis funqcionirebis gasagrZeleblad am gansxvavebebis minimumamde dayvana da erTmaneTTan Sexameba aucilebelia. erT ojaxSi gazrdili, erTi da igive mSoblebis Svilebi, Tanabari pirobebis da SesaZleblobebis garemoSi myofi Zmebi, xSirad gansxvavebul Tvisebebsa da unarebs avlenen. xSiria SemTxveva, roca Zmebi erT saqmes erTad ver akeTeben da erTmaneTs ver ewyobian. gamomdinare aqedan, sxvadasxva ojaxSi gazrdili, ori sxvadasxva sqesis, SesaZloa gansxvavebuli kulturisa da mentalitetis mqone adamianis mTeli cxovrebis manZilze Tanacxovreba da yoveldRiuri urTierToba garkveul winaaRmdegobebs da SeuTavseblobebs warmoSobs.

Tu ojaxSi meuRleebidan erT-erTi ambobs: „me aseTi var da Tu ginda mimiRe“, xolo meore pasuxobs: „me aseTi ar mindixar, gaxdi iseTi,rogoric me minda“, aseT ojaxSi bednierebis da harmoniis miRweva ukiduresad gaZneldeba. sasurvelia wyvilma erTmaneTs gagebas Seecados da erTma meoris adgilas warmoidginos Tavi. romelime meuRlem egoisturad mxolod sakuTar neba-survilze ki ar unda ifiqros, meuRlis survilebic unda gaiTvaliswinos. Tu wyvili amas moaxerxebs, ojaxSi harmonia da simSvide daisadgurebs. winaaRmdeg SemTxvevaSi yvelaferi calmxrivi iqneba da ojaxur Tanacxovrebas safrTxe Seeqmneba. ojaxSi mxolod erTi mxarisgan atanis da gagebis moTxovna orive mxares problemebs Seuqmnis. daCagrul mxares SesaZloa fsiqologiuri da aseve fiziologiuri problemebi Seeqmnas. mCagvrel mxares ki egoizmi Zvalsa da

rbilSi gaujdeba da amgvari „uZRebi Svilis“ sindromiT Sepyrobili irgvlivmyofebisaTvisac autaneli gaxdeba.

garda amisa, mudmivad erTi da igive mxridan msxverplis gaReba aRniSnul mxares daauZlurebs da Sesabamisad, erT mSvenier dRes misgan mosaTxovi aRaraferi darCeba. qorwinebaSi myofma wyvilma amgvar mdgomareobaSi erTimeore ar unda Caagdon.

upiratesoba arsebuls unda mieniWos da ara ararsebuls

moTxovnilebebi usazRroao amboben. marTlac rom asea, radgan moTxovnilebebis zRvaris dadgena rTulia. quCaSi mcxovrebi adamianis moTxovnileba TavSesafris mignebaa. dabali Semosavlis da qiriT macxovrebi adamiani moTxovnileba ki sakuTari saxlis SeZenaa. saxlis visac aqvs agarakze ocnebobs da a.S. mokled moTxovnilebis jaWvi TiTqmis usasrulobamde SeiZleba gagrZeldes. moTxovnilebebi adamianis bunebazecaa damokidebuli. iseTi ra, rac guSin moTxovna iyo, dRes Cveulebriv yoveldRiurobad da Cvevad gadaiqceva xolme. aseve SeiZleba, rom guSin warmoudgeneli ram, dRes moTxovnad gveqces. iseTi zRvris daweseba, romelic yvela adamianis moTxovnilebis zRvars gansazRvravs, Zalian rTulia. moTxovnilebebi damokidebulia adamianis pirovnebaze, kulturasa da droze, amitom mudmivad cvalebadia.

moTxovnilebebis Sesruleba SesaZlebobebis mixedviTaa gansazRvruli. zogjer moTxovnilebebs sworedac rom SesaZleblobebi badebs. SesaZlebloba gaCndeba Tu ara, adamiani konkretuli raimis miRebis moTxovnilebas igrZnobs. saboloo jamSi umjobesia moTxovnilebebi SesaZleblobebis mixedviT ganvsazRvroT, raTa ausrulebeli moTxovnilebebis gamo ubedurad ar vigrZnoT Tavi. xelS rac gvaqvs misiT kmayofilebis codna Zalian mniSvnelovania.

gamomdinare aqedan rac gagvaCnia imis madlierni unda viyoT da rac ar gvaqvs imis gamo ar unda vidardoT. qona-arqonis sakiTxSi saWiroa im adamianebze Sexedva, romlebsac ufro naklebi Semosavlebi gaaCniaT da Sesabamisad madlierebis gamoxatva imisaTvis rac gvaqvs. rac ar gvaqvs, is, Cveni ubedurebis mizezi ar unda gaxdes. rac ar gvaqvs da gvWirdeba mis mosapoveblad Sroma da mcdelobaa saWiro. amgvari survilebis da moTxovnilebebis asasruleblad aucileblad legitimuri da patiosani gzebi unda veZeboT. yvela gaWirveba da gansacdeli ki ise unda miviRoT, rogorc gamocda.

garda amisa, aucilebelia erTmaneTisgan ganvavsxvavoT moTxovnilebebi da fufuneba. reklamam da modam SesaZloa fufunebis survilebi gaaRvivos da zedmeti danaxarjebisken gvibiZgos. amgvari tendencia adamians gaumaZRrobisken ubiZgebs da Tanac mosalodnelia gamdidrebis ioli da aralegitimuri gza airCios.

siyvaruli da sasiamovno sityvebi

lamazi da mgrZnobiare sityvebi yvelas siamovnebs. tkbili sityva da isiyvarulis gamoxatva yvelas sWirdeba. yovel adamianSi aris bavSvi, romelic siTbosa da siyvaruls iTxovs. es yvelas moTxovnilebaa. sxeuli bedreba, magram suli ar berdeba. amitom adamianSi mudmivad aris bavSvi. siyvaruli da mzrunveloba rogorc patara bavSvs, ise sWirdeba yvelas.

qorwinebaSi myofma wyvilebma, sasurvelia mudam tkbili sityviT da siyvaruliT mimarTon erTmaneTs. xSirad unda Seaqon erTmaneTi da komplimentebi ar daiSuron. meuRleebma erTmaneTs kargi saqmeebi unda Seuqon da umaduroba ar gamoiCinon. amgvari qceva meuRleebs sikeTis keTebisken waaqezebs. orive mxare Seecdeba, rom ufro da ufro kargad moiqces. amgvarad wyvils Soris urTierToba ufro Tbili da sasiamovno gaxdeba.

col-qmris karg damokidebulebasa da tkbili qcevis Sesaxeb wm. Suamavali brZanebda: „col-qmarma erTmaneTs lukma rom miawodon esec mowyalebaa.“

siyvarulis gamoxatva da sasiamovno sityvebis Tqma aramarto meuRleebs Soris aris sasurveli, aramed mSoblebsa da Svilebs Sorisac. bavSis kargi qceva SeqebiT unda Sefasdes. amiT bavSi igrZnobs, rom is mSoblebisa da ojaxisTvis Zvirfasia da misi kargi qceva ojaxis wevrebs abednierebs. amgvar garemoSi gazrdili bavSvi Seecdeba mudmivad kargad moiqces da merec, roca TviTon gaxdeba mSobeli ojaxSi amgvar damokidebulebas SeinarCunebs.

„siyvaruli; mwares tkbilad aqcevs, miwas oqrod, avadmyofobas sijansaRed, cixes sasaxled, ubedurebas bednierebad, samares wyalobad aqcevs. siyvarulia, romelic rkinas adnobs da qvas alRvobs“. (mevlana)

meuRlis ojaxvs pativi unda vceT

visac vardi uyvars eklis simwarec unda aitanos

qorwinebaSi yofnisas meuRleebma ar unda CaTvalon, rom mxolod meuRle misi cxovrebis megzuri da misi ojaxi arafers warmoadgens. mizezi mravali SeiZleba iyos. zogjer seriozuli mizezis gamo, zogjerac umizezod meuRlis ojaxTan problemebis Seqmna xSiri movlenaa. aris Semtxvevebi, roca mxareebs meuRlis ojaxi araTu ar siamovnebT, aramed sZulT da ver itanen.

racarunda samarTliani iyos, meuRlis ojaxis misamarTiT naTqvami cudi sityva meuRles mwared xvdeba gulze da arasodes aviwydeba. amgvarad naTqvam cud sityvas meuRle, rogorc wesi imaxsovrebs da Sesabamis dros mTqmels daayvedrebs xolme.

amitom, qorwinebaSi myofi wyvili Semdegnairad unda moiqces: pirveli, meuRlis ojaxs ise unda moeqces, rogorc mas surs, rom mis ojaxs meuRlem moeqces. meore: siZe iqneba Tu rZali unda dafiqrdes, rom erT dRes isinic gaxdebebian simamri, sidedri, mamamTili, dedamTili da a.S. amitom rogor moqcevasac isurveben maSn, ise unda moeqcnen sxvebs axla.

unda iyos „Cven“ da ara „me“

yvela erTisaTvis, erTi yvelasTvis.

ojaxSi urTierTobis sijansaRisaTvis mniSvnelovania egoisturi damokidebulebis ugulebelyofa da mis magivrad zemoT warmodgenili damokidebulebis damkvidreba: „erTi yvelasaTvis, yvela erTisaTvis.“ urTierTobas, romlis safuZveli aris „me“ da „Sen“ da ara „Cven, SeuZlia mxolod ubedurebis motana da ara bednierebis.

ojaxi, es aris garemo, sadac mSoblebi da Silebi erTad cxovroben. am garemoSi „me“ unda Semcirdes da „Cven“ unda gaxSirdes. col-qmars Soris Tu daiwyeba iseTi midgomebi, rogoricaa: me gavakeTe, me gamovimuSave, Cemi saxli, Cemi manqana, Cemi, me mekuTvnis da msgavsi sxva, aseT ojaxSi simSide da bedniereba Znelad daisadgurebs. colisa da qmris Semosavali ojaxis saerTo Semosavalia. am Semosavlebidan yvelas motxovnileba unda dakmayofildes. upiratesoba ki aucileblobis xarisxis mixedviT, ojaxuri dialogis gziT unda gadawydes. dauSvebelia iseTi tipis xarjva, romelic usamarTlobis SegrZnebebs aRZravs.

ojaxis Semosavlebi yvelasTvis Ria unda iyos da romelime mxarem Semosavlebis nawilis gadamalva ar unda ikadros. garda amisa, meuRleebma erTimeoris xarjebi mudmivad ar unda akontrolon, raTa ar aiZulon erTmaneTi zogi ram farulad SeiZinon. Tu meuRlis yovel danaxarjs gamoikiTxav da sayvedurebiT aavseb, isic iZulebuli gaxdeba zogi ram dagimalos. Tu xarjva zRvars ar gadadis gagebiT unda movekidoT da amasTanave qalisa da mamakacis xarjvis Taviseburebebi unda gaviTvaliswinoT.

qorwinebaSi „Cven“ elementis gaTvaliswineba gulisxmobs SeTanxmebul qmedebas, roca meuRleebi erTmeoris azrebs da moTxovnilebebs iTvaliswineben da mxolod sakuTari Sexedulebisamebr ar moqmedeben. erTiani azri da moqmedeba orive mxares sakuTar mniSnelobas daanaxebs da amasTanave ufro sasargeblo mimarTulebebis warmoCinebas Seuwyobs xels.

ojaxSi survilebis da motxovnilebebis dakmayofileba calmxrivi ar unda iyos. magaliTad, vaxSmis momzadebisas mudmivad erTi mxaris gemovnebis da survilebis gaTvaliswineba arasworia. an Tundac dasasveneblad wasvlisas orive mxaris survili da azri unda iqnas gaTvaliswinebuli. Tu yvela moTxovnis erTdroulad Sesrulebis SesaZlebloba ar arsebobs, maSin rigrigobiT unda Sesruldes. magaliTisTvis isev dasvenebis Temas moviSveliebT. Tu erT mxares zRvaze unda wasvla, xolo meore mxares mTaSi, aseT SemTxvevaSi SeuZliaT erT jerze zRvaze, xolo meore wels mTaSi wavidnen. amgvari midgoma cxovrebis yvela sferoSi unda ganxorcieldes.

urTierToba Ria unda iyos

urTierTSoris kedlebi ki ar aaSenoT, aramed xidebi aageT.

jansaRi pirovnuli ganviTarebis, jansaRi urTierTobisa da bednieri ojaxisTvis kargi komunikaciaa saWiro. ojaxSi mcxovreb adamianebTan komunikaciis damyareba SeiZleba sxvadasxva gzebiT iyos SesaZlebeli, magram mTavari mainc kargi komunikaciis arsebobaa.

ojaxSi, upirveles yovlisa jer mSoblebs unda hqondeT kargi urTierToba da jansaRi komunikacia. Tu ojaxSi coli da qmari urTierTobas gulRiad da advilad axerxeben, bavSvebic maTgan igives iswavlian. ojaxSi qceva gadamdebia. ojaxis erTi wevris kargi an cudi Tviseba meore wevrzec moqmedebs. kargad SeTanxmebuli col-qmari kargi magaliTia bavSvebisTvis.

arsebobs mimarTulebebi, romlebic urTierTobis TvalsazrisiT unda iqnas gaTvaliswinebuli. urTierTobisas dialogi, mosmena da gageba yvelaze mniSvnelovani faqtorebia. ojaxis wevrebi erTmaneTTan saerTo enis gamonaxvas unda cdilobdnen. roca erTi laparakobs sxvebi unda usmendnen da yuradReba sxva rameebze ar unda gadaitanon.

gasaTvaliswinebelia agreTve isic, rom Tu erTi mxare gabrazebulia meore mxare unda gaCumdes. am dros komunikacias da urTierTobis SelaparakebiT mogvarebas, rogorc wesi uaresi Sedegi moaqvs. saubrisas Secdomebis saxeSi mixla ar aris rekomendirebuli. Tu Secdomis Tqma aucilebelia, sasurvelia es iribad, miniSnebiT vuTxraT. mosaubre pirmRimari da tkbilmoubari unda iyos da igive mdgomareoba unda hqondes msmenelsac. am SemTxevavSic, siyvarulisa da pativiscemis gamoxatva ZiriTadi warmmarTveli faqtori unda iyos.

kargi komunikaciisaTvis yvela xelsayreli momenti unda iqnas gamoyenebuli.

ojaxSi Sesvlisas da gamosvlisas ojaxis wevrebs Soris urTierTobac komunikaciis gamovlinebaa. momsvleli damxvdurebs unda miesalmos da damxvdurebic saxeRimiliani unda Sexvdnen. saxlidan gasvlisasac damSvidobebaa saWiro da darCenilebmac wasuli unda dalocon.

ojaxSi sakomunikacio kanalebis gadaketva mraval problemas warmoSobs. upirveles yovlisa es yvelaferi mxareebis fsiqologiur problemebze miuTiTebs. aseT pirobebSi bavSvebi arasrulfasovnebis SegrZnebas ganicdian da gaucxoveba emarTebaT. ase gaucxoebuli adamianebi erTmaneTs Znelad itanen da xSiria ojaxuri konfliqtebi. gamomdinare aqedan, ojaxSi, sadac kargi komunikacia ar arsebobs bednierebaze saubari TiTqmis gamoricxulia.

Tanacxovreba

ojaxSi keTildReobis gadanawileba Tanabrad da samarTlianad unda xdebodes. aseve Tanabrad unda gadanawildes Sesasrulebeli samuSao, pasuxismgebloba da sxva msgavsi.

qorwinebamSi myofma wyvilma Tanabrad unda gainawlos rogorc ojaxis saqme da movaleobebi, ise Tanabarad unda miiRon yvel is sikeTe rasac maT Tanacxovreba aZlevs. cnobilia, rom wm. Suamavali Tavis meuRlesTan erTad garTobasac uTmobda dros da rogorc misi erT-erTi meuRle saTno aiSe gadmogvcems, erTxel sirbilSic ki gajibrebian erTmaneTs. gamomdinare aqedan, muslim mamakacs SeuZlia wesis da zomierebis farglebSi meuRlis garTobaze izrunos.

rogorc wesi, daqorwinebisas amboben Wirsa da lxinSi erTad yofiliyaviTo. swored es principi unda moqmedebdes. meuRleebma Wiri da lxini mTeli cxovrebis manZilze unda gaiziaron da erTmaneTs gverdi daumSvenon.

amgvari midgoma unda gavrceldes aramarto meuRleebze, aramed ojaxis yvela wevrzec. mSoblebis mier Svilebis misamarTiT siyvarulis da mzrunvelobis gamoxatva sworedac rom maTTvis drois daTmobiTa da sasurveli rameebis erTad gakeTebiT aris SesaZlebeli. Zviriani saCuqrebiT, nair-nairi saTamaSoebiT da msgavsi midgomebiT siyvarulis da yuradRebis gamoxatva arc ise efeqturia. arc carieli „miyvarxar Svilo“ sityvebic kmara saimisod, rom bavSvi amaSi darwmundes. bavSvebs yvelaze metad yuradReba sWirdebaT da saamisod dro unda davuTmoT. dResaswaulebze Zvirfas saCuqrebze metad bavSvebs mSblebis yuradReba da maTTan gatarebuli wuTebi daamaxsovrdebaT.

ojaxma erTad yofnisaTvis dro gansakuTrebiT unda SearCios. es SeiZleba iyos pikniki, seirnoba, ardadegebi Tu sxva msgavsi aqtivobebi. gansakuTrebuli yuradReba ki mTeli ojaxis erTad sufrasTan dasxdomas eniWeba. adamianisTvis ojaxSi gatarebuli drois yvelaze mniSvnelovani momenti ojaxTan erTad sufrasTan gatarebuli droa.

sinaze

adamianebi qorwindebian ara droebiT, aramed maTi erTad yofna sicocxlis bolomdea dagegmili. zogjer es periodi 50-60 weli grZeldeba, xolo zogjer ufro metxansac SeiZleba gagrZeldes. amdeni xniT Tanacxovrebas vic Seudgeba erTmaneTTan damokidebulebaSi siTbo da sinaze unda gamoiCinos. ojaxis wevrebma erTmaneTTan saubrisas sasurvelia gamoiyenon mxolod is sityvebi, romlebic mimarTvis adresats esiamovneba da maqsimalurad unda moeridos iseTi toniT laparaks, rogoric sxvebis gulistkenas gamoiwvevs.

usiamovno da Seuracxmyofeli sityvebis mosmena aravis siamovnebs. aseT sityvebs adresatis gulSi mourCeneli Wrilobebis datoveba SeuZlia. marTalia kamaTis an Cxubis Semdeg Serigeba xdeba, magram Cxubis dros naTqvami mware sityva Tavis zemoqmedebas didxans inarCunebs. garda amisa, aseT SemTxvevebSi urTierTpativiscemis da urTierTsiyvarulis xarisxi iklebs. yvelas ginaxavT albaT rogor angrevs xSiri dajaxebebiT talRebi qvebs. swored ase SeuZlia mware sityvis xSirad Tqmas daangrios adamianis guli da keTilganwyoba.

mudmivad cudsityvaoba da enamwaroba siyvarulsa da pativiscemas anadgurebs. arada siyvaruls da pativiscemas gafrTxileba da movla sWirdeba. qorwinebaSi myofi wyvilis mier gamoCenili siTbo da sinaze maT Soris arsebul siyvarulsa daurTierTpativiscemas gaaRmavebs da gaaZlierebs.

sisufTave

„ueWvelad, allahs uyvars momnaniebelni da uyvars ganwmendilebi!“ (bayara 2/222)

ojaxSi sisufTave SesaZlebelia or nawilad gaiyos. pirveli saxlis zogadi sisufTave da meore, individualuri sisufTave. saxlis zogad sisufTaveSi samzareulos, abanos, sapirfareSos da zogadad mTeli saxlis sisufTave igulisxmeba. sisufTave mniSvnelovania rogorc higienuri TvalsazrisiT, ise fsiqologiuri mxridanac. sufTac rom iyos, mouwesrigebeli oTaxi iq myofebis ganwyobaze cudad moqmedebs. gamomdinare aqedan saxlis zogadi sisufTave Zalzed mniSvnelovani sakiTxia. ojaxSi sisufTaveze pasuxismgebeli pirovneba gaweuli SromisaTvis xSirad unda SevaqoT da sisufTavis SenarCunebas ojaxis yvela wevri unda cdilobdes. sisufTavis Seqmnaze aranakleb mniSvnelovania misi SenarCuneba.

saxlis zogadi sisufTavis SenarCunebis procesSi arc avadmyofuri da panikuri damokidebulebaa saWiro da arc zereled unda mivudgeT saqmes. rogorc areul da bunZur saxls SeuZlia gamoiwvios adamianebis ganwyobis gafuWeba, ise gadaWarbebulad mowesrigebul da sisufTaveze Tangadayolil damokidebulebasac SeuZlia Segvawuxos da dagvTrgunos. ojaxis yvela wevri sisufTaves unda icavdes da am TvalsazrisiT TiToeuli maTganis damokidebuleba unda iqnas gaTvaliswinebuli. Tu ojaxis erTi wevri sisufTaves didi yuradRebas uTmobs da meore yuradRebas ar aqcevs, aman SeiZleba ojaxSi konfliqti gamoiwvios. ar unda dagvaviwydes, rom sisufTave, romelic janmrTelobis da bednierebis pirobaa, islamis mixedviT rwmenis niSania.

individualuri sisufTaves rac Seexeba, es aris xelis, fexis, Tmis, piris, tanisamosis da zogadad adamianis garegnuli sisufTave. rogorc saxlis zogadi sisufTave, ise individualuri sisufTavec ojaxSi janmrTelobis da bednierebis sawindaria. bunebrivia, mouwesrigebel, dauvarcxnel, kbilebgayviTlebul, WuWyian da daubanel meuRles aravin isurvebs. aucilebeli araa adamians Zviriani sunamos suni asdiodes. saamisod wylisa da sapnis sunic sakmarisia. sisufTave aris aramxolod sxvisi, aramed sakuTari Tavis pativiscema.

ojaxis diasaxlisi saxlS dabrunebul adamianebs da gansakuTrebiT ki meuRles mouwesrigebeli da WuWyiani ar unda daxvdes. wm. Suamavali brZanebda: „ ojaxSi RamiT roca dabrundebiT umal ar SexvideT. acaleT sanam (ojaxi) Tmas daivarcxnis, mowesrigdeba da saWiro rameebs moawesrigebs.“ aRniSnul hadisSi naTlad aris miTiTebuli Tu rogor unda Sexvdes diasaxlisi saxlSi mosul qmars. am rCevis gaTvaliswineba adamianebs argebs rogorc ojaxuri cxovrebis normalizebis procesSi, ise saiqioSic, radgan amiT wm. Suamavlis rCevas viTvaliswinebT.

sisufTave moqmedebs Tvalzec, gulsa da gonebazec. Tvali fotoaparats gavs. rasac dainaxavs iRebs da gonebaSi imaxsovrebs. guli ki am suraTebs grZnobebad aqcevs. es grZnobebi an simpaTias badaben, an kide antipaTias. sufTa saxli da sufTa sxeuli gonebaS CabeWdili fotoa. ojaxis wevrebma erTmeores mudmivad aseTi sasiamovno fotoebi unda aCuqon.